Have you seen the movie "A Christmas Story"? I can pretty much guarantee that your H's feelings about having sex on V-Day are equivalent to the little boy's feelings about getting the Red Ryder BB-Gun for Xmas. The nice dinner out is just a football and a mushy card might just be the equivalent of the inappropriate gift of a pink bunny suit from his Great-Aunt.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver