Sun, I just wrote almost your exact words in another post! I hate that I feel like I'm "okaying" his calling this OW by letting him stay here. He's read DB, going to therapy alone and with me, but I feel like what's the point? Granted he's talking to her less and less, but the feelings are still there for her. We have had a very nice last couple of weeks and I asked him last night what he thought about that. He said, "it was comfortable". I was like, CRAP, not the answer I wanted to hear. H goes to the therapist tomorrow by himself. I'm anxious (and nervous) to talk to H afterward. Bottom line Sun, AM there, DOING that just like you. Hang in there.
