I am working on patience and GAL. I have just been going to the gym (taking kids--of course) and going out a few hours on the weekend. Need to do something else, I will work on that.
Another positive to post Last night I carried the laundry basket to our bedroom to finish folding clothes I didn't get to over the weekend. As I past H on the couch, he said don't do that. I said, I need to I ran really late yesterday because I had to dig through here and find clothes. Later as I passed him again, he actually thanked me for taking care of the laundry. Then this morning, as I was running around trying to get me and the kids ready to leave, he loaded the van with my stuff and had it running. I usually leave the house with an armload each morning. He used to do that all the time before we moved.
Baby steps with no expectations, right???? I am trying to focus on the positives and keep my PMA up.