You (and me) have to have patience! Keep doing things to make yourself happy...your H can go with you or be left behind...
Quote: Yeah the having your cake and eating it really bothers me too.
I read this alot, I've probably posted it on my own thread...but what the hell good is a cake if you can't eat it?!?!?! I know it is a figure of speech but do you see where I'm going with it...
Quote: This is just so confusing.
No doubt about that...but you know something...he's just as confused as you...if not more.
Don't overlook the positives, lots of baby steps!
Quote: H calls on his way home and actually wants to talk. He actually asked about me and something going on with me.he preceded to tell me about something that happened to him at work. he actually seems concerned.
lots of positives...keep doing what you are doing, it is working...don't get your expectations up because he is bound to back track some, keep focusing on you and the kids!
