I have read all that you have written Sherry. I believe you were channeling me they are so similar! I didn't have any idea that so many people were in the EXACT same spot as me. I know H is still talking to OW. He told me so. I feel like an ulimatim is coming even though I know that would not produce the results I want. I just feel like if I keep "doing more of the same" (i.e. H talking to OW and living here being loving and sweet to me) he will never give up the OW. I feel like the last 6 months have been 6 years and I'm exhausted. Just wanted to let you know reading your posts have helped.