That is what is at the heart of my indecision right now... This is just so confusing... I am just surprised he talked to me for so long and thought to ask about my problem...I am going to keep detaching and GAL and keep considering what to do.
I think perhaps your detachment and your GAL and even your indecision about H is coming through in your actions and words, but you don't hear it and see it and recognize it, because you're not aware of how your moving on influences what you say and do, and influences how you say and do it. But maybe H sees it, and you're starting to get the results of that. Slowly. Now and then.