Hey Sherry, I see others are saying what I have been thinking about you.
I would not allow my other to date while married to me. I know it will be hard, but in or out you must know.
I have been reading your sitch for what 2 months..and it was not new then.I think you have been living with this for a while....
Being in limbo, is very hard. What is the old saying,@@@@ or get off the pot. As for my own sitch, I do know where the boundaries are, ( Don't like it)( Don't always follow, but I do know what they are. Have you dated? I'm too far away, But it is 15 deg. C today.( about 60 F) Very nice flowers coming up, still 7 feet snow on mountain, you ski? Have some fun will ya.
I will update my sitch sometime this weekend, I have the kids and they are sick.