Sorry, I just realized you said that weeknights are hard to go out. How about having all your daily duties done and dinner ready for when your H gets home. Then when he does get home (and you know he's staying there for the night), act as if you are in a bit of a hurry to leave because you have plans. Tell H you'll be back in a couple of hours or so. Even if you don't really have any plans, he'll start to wonder. And don't forget to thank him and let him know how much you appreciate him staying with the kids. While you're out, do something for you. Go shopping and buy yourself something really nice. You deserve it! Something that I did which was actually suggested to me by someone on this site was I went out and bought some new lingerie and very sexy panties. Even with things being on shaky ground, boy did my H ever notice! I even bought some revealing blouses. Not skimpy, but enhancing. We went out one night, still unsure of our future, but all I could remember was that my H loved the way I looked in that blouse!
Keep going to the gym. If you haven't already, buy yourself some new clothing. Stuff you know will catch his eye. Fix yourself up everyday - hair, makeup, etc. I have to admit that I kinda let myself go after having the baby, but now that I'm keeping up my appearance, my H touches me more and more everyday.
I hope this is somewhat helpful.
Thanks for listening!
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
