Sherry--a couple of weeks ago I posted that I was preparing to give an ultimatum and not move with him....now I'm ready to move tomorrow...I guess my point is you are just as confused as your H. Keep detaching as best you can try to find things you can do for you...ask your H to watch the kids tomorrow because you have plans with some friends...will that be a 180? Start doing for you and do things that make you happy!
If he really wanted to be with ow he would have left when you told him too....yes, he's confused and it sucks for you but you need to be patient...you (like me) are not truly ready to end your M that is why you are still there doing what you are doing. However your M ends up there will be two things you can be sure of: You will love you and you will have done everything you could do for your family.
