I am not sure about a 180 in this area. When I don't do things, they pretty much do not get done. I have let things go and he doesn't pitch in. This has been an issue for us. He says he doesn't see what needs to be done. Hello, you don't see the dishes stacked in the sink. If I fall asleep before the kids are taken care of at night (and that usually only happens when I am sick) he will step in and take care of them.
I guess a 180 would be to ask him to help (nicely, of course).
