Okay, I have a question, some insight and advice would be appreciated.
After a very frustrating day, gone almost 12 hours before coming home, working, having and dealing with the kids before and after work, dealing with doctor and prescription problem, getting groceries, putting groceries away, making dinner, bathing D(4). Didn't bother H with groceries because he hates going (like I love it).
I keep wondering if I am making this too easy for H.
He is at home without too many responsibilities. He maintains his R (ea) with ow. I am trying to detach and GAL. But I don't know. GAL is hard with most of the responsibility of the kids falling on me.
I guess I am wondering at this point if this will continue indefinately because H has a safety net with me being home. He is getting what he needs from ow and from me.