If he can't watch the kids, then couples normally call in a relative, a friend, and barring that, a babysitter. You can and should ask H first, but if it does conflict with his class time, then that's just as not fair an inconvenience to him as it would be to you. All the work is on us, Sherry. We have to show concern for the WAS's needs, it doesn't work the other way around.
