Took the kids to Sunday school, then church. Surprised H a little with this. We are running around getting ready and H comes in the bedroom and says "I'm confused" (Duhhhhh-I know that LOL)--we are getting ready earlier than usual, we have been going to church not SS (an H will go to church but early on said he would not go to SS). I just say I am going to SS. Did not ask him if he wanted to go or tell him I was going. No response, he just walks out of the room. He kinda looks at me funny as we leave but oh well who know what that means.
Anyway, to the mess up (not a big one). I come home and he is not here. I had been preparing myself for that but it just made me sooo mad. Just stop sneaking around!!!! So, being the bright person I am, I call him. He says he is on his way home from the video store. So I say I am taking the kids to eat (which is what I should have done when I pulled in and not called him--aaggg) He says well hey I am almost home so wait for me.
It isn't a big mistake. I am just mad at myself for reacting. He knows what time we would get home and he was gone anyway. He pushed my buttons. He doesn't think anything is wrong. So it isn't huge.
Well, I have definately learned from this and next time will NOT call H. I will just be gone when he comes home.
