The one thing that I truly have learned through DB is that I used to sweat the little things. Get annoyed at stupid things. There are far more important things to gripe about with H than stupid things like "You said you were going to do this". Obviously we all got a taste of reality when we found out about H's and their OW. This is a wake up call...
Do what you have been doing, make the decisions about dinner. Start watching a video without him, H will start to see that you are going to do what you have to do for you...He is already noticing, so keep it up.
My H and I used to have that same convo about dinner all the time...My answer was always, lets go out to eat...Then it turned into where do you want to go, I dont know where do YOU want to go...LOL
