Hey Sherry--sorry you're having a hard time. I agree with Sun, make a list of the pros and cons, that might help. How are the kids doing through all of this, I think they will be the most affected if you do choose to move without H. I'm not saying you should stay indefinitely in your M the way it is, but if there is any hope than the kids deserve it. Trust me, I know it's hard, I'm going thru some of the same stuff you are, I have to say the kids are making a huge impact on my decision, I just can't take them away from their dad. I don't know if that's good or bad but I am trying to keep the hope that our M still has a chance. I need to GAL and so do you, it will be easier to detach if we do.
