Took the kids to church without H. Went to the gym later.
I have decide to just live my life. If H wants to be a part of it, fine, if not, his loss. My decisions will not be based on H but on me and the kids. I don't know if this is detachment or me giving up a little and not fighting as hard. I will still be nice and loving to H. I can't just be mean, it is not who I am. But I will live my life for me, not him. He is living his for him.
I still haven't decided about the transfer yet. I have until March 6. I did talk to H about this and my uncertainty about what to do. I told him I did not want to pressure him, but I had some choices to make. Of course he had no comment--nothing new there.
