Quote: Fortunately, my mention of ow and R talks are becoming less frequent.
This is great! we will both eventually get to the point where we aren't thinking about it constantly either! Good for you for joining the gym...I really need to do something as far as excersise goes...I've just been so lazy!
Keep listing the positives, both for yourself and your relationship, that way, when you're feeling down you can come and see the baby steps.