Thanks. Yeah, most of the time if I act fine (normal-like none of this is going on), then H is usually okay. You think I would learn. He usually only gets bad if I am emotional or if I question him. He does ocassionally get moody but it is not too bad.
Some positvies (more to remind me, I guess) --H called yesterday to let me know he was stopping at the store before coming home. --H helped with kids last night --H reached out this morning and gave me a hug.
NY-- my students are a great distraction, it wasn't so much them that made me sad, it was all the adults I work with talking about their plans, what they got, and seeing all those ----- flowers being delivered. I work with mostly females, so.... Anyway, I didn't dwell on it. My own kids cheered me up.
