quote: ----------------- Your above comments are exactly why I origianly said "let's not jump to conclusions" when Nopkins expressed his thought that your h IS likely involved with someone now. -----------------
So that everyone can be 'right', I will tell you why I 'assume' the worst.
I assume the worst because it provides ME a base to provide my limited amateur counsel from. In the case of a relationship where there has been multiple unresolved affairs, the likelihood of an ongoing affair is quite high. This is statistically factual.
Repairing a relationship with a partner that is currently in an affair, or has recently ended an affair, or has multiple unresolved issues with affairs is very difficult, as you well know from your own situation. MY approach, in dealing with this kind of situation, is to assume continuation of an affair. The principles used in that construct seem best suited to resolve issues in the aforementioned situation.
I suggest that we bury our difference of opinion on approach to aid, and see if we can help this fine person deal with her situation.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
