Quote: I decided a while back to live "as if" there is no one else, until given good reason to know there is someone else. Otherwise recovery is impossible. Trust can never be built with someone who is forever questioning and accusitory in nature. It took me a long time to get to this point. Hopefully, I've achieved the balance of recognizing the very real possibility but living without the preoccupation of it. Thanks for your input.
Hey Hope,
I don't think there is a denial going on in your sit either (if you were seeing concrete evidence then that would be another story).
Your above comments are exactly why I origianly said "let's not jump to conclusions" when Nopkins expressed his thought that your h IS likely involved with someone now.
