Thanks for writing again. I just went to the library and got the books. I'm looking forward to reading them. I've already read about the 180. I've been trying to apply some of the principles. Not an easy thing for me. I'm not the indifferent type.
You ask what needs his affairs met. I believe they met his need for admiration, newness, adventure. H loves the highs of infactuation. He lives life on the edge... racing motorcycles, pushing business to the limit and so forth. He does not like the normal everyday regularity of life.
Actually, marriage just doesn't seem to suit his personality. I think he'd do well to have a new woman in his life every two to three years. Yikes! Is there really much I can do to meet this "need"?
As far as how his attitude was toward life, he was on an incredible high at first but then eventually he came down and fluctuated between highs and real lows. At this point, H seems more down than up. But he is one who is constantly changing. He is very inconsistent by nature, so life is a big guessing game with him.
If I had to bet on it at this pt. in time, I would guess he is being faithful. But I've been wrong before. Only he and God know the truth of where he is.
