I've changed this title hoping to get more feedback. I'm very open to any suggestions or ideas.
CeMar,
In answer to your question about the Love Must Be Tough book, it basically discusses the necessity of having respect in any relationship.
It talks about the whole idea of not chasing after someone who is uninterested. It discusses the importance of treating yourself with the necessary amount of self- respect and not begging for another's affection. It deals with the idea that if you are strong in this way, it is attractive to the other person. People don't tend to be drawn to needy, desparate individuals. That's a very condensed version of what the book deals with. It is an excellent resourse.
