Nopkins, Thank you for the book suggestions. I've already read Dobson's book, a couple of times. I've needed that from the start. Grin. I plan to go get Michel's books today. I've read most of her stuff she has posted here. She has some excellent strategies. I appreciate your recommendations.
As far as history, I'm not sure what type of info. would be helpful. I gave the basic synopsis of our M in my first post. I'm very open to any questions, so shoot away.
Basically, H chased me until we got engaged. Then once he had me, his interests turned elsewhere, career advancement, etc. That's very simplistic but it gives you a general idea of where I am. I've been trying to have a intimate, loving relationship since the beginning. I'm bone weary now. Still trying but barely hanging on...
Lostlove,
His interest may be in another or it may be his business. He is definitely a workaholic. He gets many kudos there. H requires MUCH affirmation. I try to give that as much as possible but it seems he doesn't respect my opinion enough to accept my praise.
You ask what no interest means... he has not initiated anything in a year. I've iniatiated and he has simply moved my hand, rolled over, said he was too tired and the list goes on.
We do give each other hugs and occasional quick "hello- goodbye" kisses. He just isn't very accepting of affection beyond that. Thanks for your help.
