Thanks for the welcome Nopkins. In answer to your questions... His affairs were mostly emotional. In fact, they were long distance. He met one lady during business trips away.
As far as our sex life previously, I've always had a stronger sex drive than him. Usually, I've been the initiator.
There have been a few times when this was different. He went through periods of time when he would initiate, not just a few times a week, but even a few times a night. I'm still not sure what that was all about. But I sure did enjoy feeling desired.
