I miss talking to you t0o Hon. You've always been able to put things in perspective. I understand the desire to move on, but I hope you keep us posted here every now and again.
As far as checking in, I still lurk fairly often and like to check up on the crowd. Even put in a post every now and then.
Keep being yourself and I think you'll always find that silver lining. For some people it's just always there and you are one of those people.
You take care Little Girl! and who knows, I might just drop you a line one of these days.