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You too Z!

I'm still kicking and still lurking. I try to pop in whenever pretty ladies drop a note on my thread

Sounds like you are having a good time. You have always seen this as a challenge to convert him. Poor guy!

As always, you take care and don't be a stranger.


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You have always seen this as a challenge to convert him. Poor guy!



Ha! My husband and I are just trying to out-stubborn each other. Sound like anyone you know? -- z


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Z,

I guess that's as good a way as any to put it. Kind of describes what is going on at our house too. She's still very moody a lot of the time and I have a hard time being the "cheerful" one sometimes.

Mostly, I try to let her figure out whatever is bothering her, but it's hard. To me, none of the problems are that significant. It's just a matter of making a decision...but if I go down that road, she thinks I'm "controlling".

In short, I'm still "in-training" with this patience thing. I'm getting better but not sure I want to get my official certification. It's so much easier to just do "something".


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Hey J--

After catching up on the last few months of your life, things seem to be going really well. Maybe not where you want them, but a huge, huge difference from the past. I don't think patience is ever easy, at least for those of us who are not equipped with it naturally. But it all sounds good--love that you got all those brownie points for being the score keeper/cheerleader.

All is well here, though the NL didn't look as impressive as the hype was leading them to be. Had to give away our tickets for the first two games, but going up for the 17th. Be nice if we ended up being ranked and in a bowl game.

Take care..

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Hey Jackie,

How's it going. I thought they looked pretty good this weekend, although I'm not a big fan of Robinson as a QB. I think he does much better as a receiver...just need someone to throw him the ball.

I think we'll have a pretty good season, lots of key games at home and they are tough to beat in Beaver Stadium.


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Now you already know I don't know much about Nittany, LOL. So I don't have anything to add there. But like many other people that you don't understand, I'll be sitting in Richmond Saturday night, watching those cars go round in circles. I reckon you don't know much about "that" either. Are we even?

Just wanted to say hi and thank you for stopping in on my thread.

I'm glad you are still doing well Big Guy. Stop by more often, okay?

Hugs!


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Even? you are way ahead of me...although if you keep watching cars go around in a circle, I might catch up.

Take care MAL


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Even? you are way ahead of me...although if you keep watching cars go around in a circle, I might catch up.



LOL. What are you trying to say?

I'm looking forward to the race. It's more about the experience than the race I think. Although I'm really tired right now. I need to get to bed early tonight if I plan to stay awake until 3 am on Sunday.


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Hey there stranger. Saw you were on and thought I'd say hi.

Hope you are doing well.

Hugs!

MAL


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I'm doing OK. Things at home are kind of tough. I'm beginning to think that we'll never get over the hump.

Without going into details, I just feel like I'm waiting for something that just isn't going to happen. Ever since YS came back home, she's been pulling away. Now D moved back for the semester and I may be seeing the writing on the wall.

Not the kids fault, they are great. But there's been a noticable shift in the past few months and frankly, I'm not sure I'm motivated to be pulled back into this.

Of course, tomorrow's another day and I might feel better about it...we'll see. Procrastination has served me well in the past.


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