I guess that's as good a way as any to put it. Kind of describes what is going on at our house too. She's still very moody a lot of the time and I have a hard time being the "cheerful" one sometimes.
Mostly, I try to let her figure out whatever is bothering her, but it's hard. To me, none of the problems are that significant. It's just a matter of making a decision...but if I go down that road, she thinks I'm "controlling".
In short, I'm still "in-training" with this patience thing. I'm getting better but not sure I want to get my official certification. It's so much easier to just do "something".
