Hey Luke,

I tried to post you after reading your letter but something crashed..Typical of my life these days

I agree witht the consensus..I wish I could count on my hands how many times I wrote a letter to H and deleted it. Sometimes, I actually sent it and forgot to unsend it the next day.. Whoops

My sitch
H ( to be 40 in a few weeks, how ironic?)
left in Sept
S 10
D 7
Living with OW since then
Tried to reconcile in Dec
Tried again in Jan
Came home last week and left again on Mon
Told kids he loved OW yesterday
Toldl me he loved me two weeks ago
OW barged in my house two weeks ago to "catch me and H"
I wasn't home, thank God
OW checks his emails, cell and is insanely jeoulous of me
DUH!

H told me it was over this week
H told me he wanted to try last week
H told me was sick of carrying the load around here yesterday
H told me he wanted to pursue his hopes and dreams
That life was too short.

My sitch..I am under a couple posts in MLC

Good for you for scaring those robbers away! Go boy..

Space, my friend, space..Is all I can say.

Let your wife flounder right now..Sounds like you are one helluva catch so it's her loss.

Keep up the PMA

Hey, if you don't want to cook for her GF's, how bout coming to NJ and we'll have a party here instead? WE can toast these WAS and eat till we pass out!

Patti


MTN xoxoxo

me - 43
XH - 47
S - 17
D - 14

engaged - 08
and happy!

bomb 04
divorced 06
engaged 08
happy in 09!