Phew! Strong words, and I have certainly been there where I have let rip and it was very satisfying, temporarily, but I used it as shock treatment - had nothing to lose. We are now working on our M - uphill battle.
We all have to do what feels right to us. However, I wouldn't send the letter - or anything that's in writing.
Good luck with DB'ing 2005.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
