Yes sir ree Bob, I think Greeneyedlass has got it right. I think (and hope) there's another dynamic in play. About the only thing that keeps me going is an old phrase I coined over a quarter of a century ago "we only remember the good and see the bad." What has thrown me for a loop is W remembers not one thing good and back before DB I offered her assistance in remembering and POW! right in the kisser! Last night I read some old DB stuff and right in front of my nose was "they won't remember any good times."
Back to my old phrase, given time, the good will return just stay the course. Oh yeah, one more thing, You might help yourself by remembering the good too!


“I’ve learned what I know from defeats.”

Bobby Jones