When men are dating, they work hard to impress the ladies, but only because they want sex from the ladies. But if we KNOW they are LD, then why waste the effort? I now know that I would NEVER, NEVER again date a LD women. The same is true in marriage, I could divorce my wife and then spend the effort to impress the next lady, and I would have a 50/50 chance that my next women is HD. But if I spend the same effort to impress my CURRENT wife, my chances on her being HD are practically 0! Why would a man want to spend the effort to impress a lday that he already knows is ALWAYS going to be LD!!! Somehow, you need to indicate to him that if he does try to impress you, that your desire level will TRULY increase!! No matter what I do, my wifes "Desire" never returns.
