Quote: Maybe for him it is just part of a traditional marriage and that when you married it was a given?
I think this is true for most HD folk. Regular sex with someone we love is one of the top reasons we want to be married. I guess we sort of assume that our spouse somehow agreed to meet our sexual needs because we agreed to not have sex with anyone else when we married them.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver