When I ask him what he really wants his basic answer is "I want you to want me". I am so confused all the time. In six years what I have been able to decipher that H needs is sex and his dinner ready at night. Sounds really silly. He has expressed to me in the past that he wants an "Traditional Marriage" where he comes home at night to his wife cooking dinner and kids running to him. So maybe the Sex is part of that paradymn. Maybe for him it is just part of a traditional marriage and that when you married it was a given?
