Quote: I've had the experience of not being attracted to a man and then becoming more attracted, but I've never had the opposite experience.
It is so interesting to find out the HD point of view. I have been sexually attracted to people before and then as I got to know them I've realized I don't really want to have sex with them. It could be something in their personality or some other thing that has lessened the desire. Once I was really attracted to my boss (Yikes!) and there was a spark between us, but as I got to know him better (aside from the fact he was my boss) I realized I just didn't want to get involved and the attraction disappeared.
I will have to give a lot of thought into finding something about H that turns me on. It's been such a long time that I have looked at him sexually that I can't right off think of something particular to him.