We already have children, two of them and yes they do stress the relationship also. I would never tell him I am not attracted to him, I know how that feels. On our wedding night he decided to tell me that now that we are married, he would like me to "work on my thighs" that he'd like them smaller. It was terrible. Something I have never forgotten nor totally gotten over. No matter how upset I may be with him, I wouldn't want him to feel that way. I talked to my Dr. about the low testosterone at one time and was told that I could start supplements but that I would probably gain significant weight and grow facial hair. Side effects that I wasn't sure I wanted to have but if anyone has info on this type of treatment I'd appreciate it. I'd like to be able to just want him again like I used to.
