Since he is no longer meeting your needs, you are not meeting his needs for sexual fulfillment. You BOTH need to change. You are also probably suffering from low testosterone, and also from the normal LD crash after the newness of a relationship wears off. DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN UNTIL YOU FIX THE PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!! Children only make the situation worse!!!!
Quote: Does not being attracted to your spouse mean you don't really love him?
From the female perspective, this does not always mean you do not love your husband. But from the MALE perspective, yes, you are definitely telling your husband through your actions that you DO NOT LOVE him. Just a warning, DO NOT EVER TELL A MAN YOU FIND HIM UNATTRACTIVE. That is something you may NEVER be able to fix with him, even if things improve. (I should know, I am the unattractive man in my house). Even if you can corect your sex drive down the road, he may never believe that you have fixed it because of what you have said to him in the past.
