I would be happy with that statement. No abuse to me. Had my STBX, meet me at the door long coat on and nothing else, Loved it, but always loved sex. WAW felt I put to much on it and lost the loven feeling that came with sex. She felt sex became to hard, said she felt like a hooker. I was just trying to be adventurous, keep it moving. Avoiding borring sex. She still WAW. I miss her. Russ