Quote: No offense to you at all, but I personally would say "excuse me?" and ask what you really meant. I would never say anything like that myself because of the potential for misunderstanding. But that's me.
No offense taken stu. If I'm faced with a comment or situation that causes me to feel uncomfortable then that is exactly what I would do..."excuse me?" He never once did that though so I foolishly assumed that his reaction to my playfullness was an honest representation of his feelings. Stupid me!!
I was always under the impression that we had great communication skills. He used to comment on how thankful he was that we could talk through our problems. I found out later that there was no real honest communication and, as far as the state of his mind, I don't think there is anyone on earth who will ever be privy to what really goes on in my ex husband's mind. He only reveals what he thinks you want to hear, the rest is a mystery.
No depositions, all that ended long ago. It's funny cause when I told my attorney about this particular accusation she started praying that he would actually say it in open court. She said that one statement would show how clearly insane he was. According to her the judge we had was very high drive. It didn't come up in court and it's a good thing cause the last thing I would want is preferintial treatment from a judge
Qoe, I'm strictly a pepsi girl these days. I'll be the designated driving and will live vicariously through your alcohol skewed view of life. Thanks for sticking up for me. Now I need to go and see what the response was. I can just imagine! Cathy
