Quote: I thought the man knew me well enough to know he was the only person I was interested in having sex with on Saturday night or any other night.
The problem with initiating this way is in the above part of the quotation. Him knowing you well enough has nothing to do with how he reacted. Either he didn't want to and felt like ignoring it was the way to go, or perhaps it didn't come off as playful as you thought.
If it didn't work the first time, then you should have asked what was up and taken it from there. Under no circumstances would I have said it again--that would have clearly been manipulation and a semi-emasculating kind at that. But spousal rape?!?!?!?! No way, no how!
Honeypot, who is guilty of the semi-hostile initiation myself after one too many nights of being ignored.
P.S. blow off the poster who said it was rape. That's ludicrous.
