My goodness, this guy must have had a long vacation from his cojones to have said something that pathetic.
If the word "rape" is to have any meaning and any serious consequences, then it should not be bandied about to describe totally non-rape situations.
At worst, ex could have inferred that you intended to have an affair if he did not comply with your wishes, so you may have been raping someone else, but not your ex.
If my wife said those exact words, she had better show up on Saturday!!!
