Thanks for that post. I am new to this whole thing. I have a very hard time thinking that my husband is with these ow. I have posted over on seperated a few times. We have three kids(9,6,4) and my husband left in Oct. I found out Nov. that he started sleeping with OW. First one lasted 2 months and is now on to another co-worker. We had our first talk since Nov. 2 days ago. He told me that he doesn't regret his choice at all. He also told me that the boys do not need to know about the OW, because they are just little chicks. He stated that he has know respect for women and that he will "never" love again. He told me that was because of me. He told me that I need to go find someone else and get over it. Sometimes I wish I could, but I miss him so much. He has changed into someone that I don't know and enjoys going out and things he never enjoyed before. He said he has changed into a single guy and left his married lifestyle behind. I pray that this OW fades as fast as the other. I dropped off the kids clothes this am and her car was out side of his house. It took everthing I had not to throw a rock threw both of there windows. How can I make him realize what he threw away. He is so cold to me. He has justified in his own mind that all his unhappyness is because of me.I feel like I am losing hope. I know it has only been three months, but it seems like he is completely done forever. He hasn't filed yet, but I told him to when we talked the other day, because that what he wants.
