He moved out for a month last year...that move coincided with me telling him that I was not going to cover his truck payment, cell phone, etc. (all in MY name but he uses) anymore. I would do so then have to hound him for months to get any money back; I was also having to resort to credit card advances to do so. It's not like I'm sitting here making a huge salary with money to spare. I was willing to let the truck be repossessed and take the credit ding. He has been paying those bills and that portion of the car insurance but doesn't contribute to anything else at all, including groceries.
Out of the 3 kids (2 boys-41,39 and 1 girl-37), only his brother is a responsible adult who pays his own way. His sister has never fully supported herself. My H doesn't seem to have any desire to even be a partner in our marriage in any way. It's always "I'll give you money later" but, as I mentioned, his word isn't worth crap.
We don't have kids; I do have 2 teens from a prior marriage.
