Hi Martha

I keep seeing your hints, and wish I could tell you about it.

Although my H and I are not piecing (we are only legally separated but he refers to me in hi posts to a website as his 'ex-wife'. ) I am am trying to salvage some of the tatters of our M!

All I CAN say, and others here will bear me out, is that things don't seem to ever progress in a smooth continuum - they go up and down and up and down. The rollercoaster.

Like, two weekends ago, my H invited me up to his place this weekend for the first time since the bomb (that is, for the first time without OW2 being there) and now all week he has been strangely flat and uncommunicative.

Some people have used the illustration of a swinging pendulum to descibe the way WASs behave. there ae inswings towards you, followed by an outswing away from you.

If you know and expect this, you won't be so devasted each time it happens.

Have you read the six stages of MLC, which you can find over on the MLC forum?

Livnlearn

"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates