Crushed,

I just read some of your thread for the first time. I to believe in miracles, W and I were D on Jan 5, 2005, then about 2 wks later she asked me to close the store early to home to to ML.

We have been D for a little over a month, we get along better, still live in the same house with our 3 children and ML more than we did when we were married. I sleep on the couch and she sleeps in "her bedroom". I flirt with her alot now and abt every other day she invites me to ML after the kids are sleeping. She says that the sex is with "no strings attached". ML with her now is more exciting than ever before.

She says she is not making any commitment to me about a relationship, she just wants sex. I am going to keep ML with her in the hopes that she may fall back in love with me again.

Crushed,
Do you think she has any feelings for me and just can't admit it because of the A she had and the D? I just can't image after 15+ yrs with her that its just abt sex?


If you have time please check my thread by doing a search for jdd.

thanks,
jdd


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