myturnnow

My H never moved out (I was supposed to be the one to move) and that probably was the reason that he was acting like a couple again from the very beginning. Cautious first because I wasn't giving him clear indication if this is what I want but once I told him I'm willing to try it was like honeymoon again.

You can always have the primary MD prescribe the medication but I would strongly suggest that the MD makes him understand that for longer term (over 3 months) of use it really needs to be managed by specialist (psychiatrist).

I think you're doing great. Just take it one day at a time, do understand that things are not in the clear for a long time but be positive because that's how you will come across. We might not agree with what happened but the WAS go through a lot of pain before, during and after making the decision to walk away on us. Once they are back it's really important to make it safe for them but also make them understand that it's a team work from now on.