Hey Crushed,

Just checking in with you..I read your entire thread..Wow..I can't believe how far you have come..

Pamislost told me to stop by your thread.

Wanted to get your advice. H left in August..Came home a few days ago.. Wanted to see if things can work out..He is still confused..Not sure of what he wants..Is trying for a month, etc..We spent the whole weekend together..With friends, etc..As for the sex thing, we used to have it all the time. Since he has been home, only once and H said it was strange..Said I acted more aggressive..He used to complain that I didn't initiate enough..

Anyway, OW is out of the picture for now..I know he isn't over her yet..BUt wanted to come back to see if things are differnt.

He tells me he loves me..But he refers to himself as a loser, etc.

I would LOVE Him to go on an anitdepressant..How did you get your H to do that? My H admitted he needs one..

Any advice..I would love to be in your shoes..

Patti


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me - 43
XH - 47
S - 17
D - 14

engaged - 08
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bomb 04
divorced 06
engaged 08
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