It's funny how easy it is to give someone an advise on situation that you're not in - I remember when just couple of weeks ago one of the DBers (BeingMe) was struggling with her piecing and I told her how much I wanted to be in her shoes and how important it was for her to be strong. I told her to go back and re-read the posts when she was a newcomer and was fighting to win her H back. Now I'm at the stage myself and can't seem to take my own advice. That's why I appreciate when you hit me with 2x4 and remind me what needs to be done and that it takes time. So keep on pounding me with 2x4 each and every time I slip. I really don't want to lose this chance because suddenly I"m the one dwelling on the past.
On the piecing note: got to work and e-mailed H asking how he was doing. We've been e-mailing back and forth for a bit teasing and hanging a lot of sexual innuendos in the air but also talking about future that included both of us in it - both happy and working on ourselves.
