I have yet to experience the piecing thing, but it sounds like you and H are both doing the best you can. I guess my best advice would be to limit those R talks, unless it's H wanting to open up, for now. You'll get your chance somewhere down the line to make your fears and frustrations with the past known. For now just sit on them and enjoy the moment. This is what you have worked so hard for and everyone here knows how much this process has helped you to grow.
ShawnL
So if you're tired of that same old story, turn some pages. I'll be ready when you are able, to roll with the changes. - REO Speedwagon
