Crushed--I saw the subject line of your thread and had to read. Congrats, I hope I get there someday. After 3 weeks of not snooping I checked his email and found some porno pics of FF/OW. It crosses my mind often what will I do if we get to the point you are at and he wants to work on our R...will I always be 'snooping'?? How will I trust him again? I will keep reading your thread and hope you can help give me some insight to that...