I am sure it is hard. I have read lots of threads here in piecing seeing people put their R's back together. I don't beleive any of them would tell you it hasn't been worth the work and effort.
You have to chose if YOU want the marriage. Then if you do you chose to trust because trust is for yourself not for him.
You trust that either way you will be ok, but your choice is to save your marriage if you can.
It takes them a while to let go of OP the same as it took time for them to be willing to let go of us. But, he is making all the moves now. He needs understanding and time.
Do you read Sage's current thread? She is awesome to read and the R she has with her H now is just unbelievable! Another lady that I talk to via e-mail from the bb that saved her marriage said just the other day her H thanked her so much for not giving up on their marriage.
It is worth it I believe, if you want it.
Go for it girl!
Besides part of the tears are just lots of jumbled emotions and stress.
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PS I got the puppy!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
